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6'2" - 184 cm
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To best give touch, we must also feel touch

Jun 11, 09:58

I had a fantastic trade with a friend of mine yesterday. I always enjoy the opportunity to relax fully on the massage table. He is also a bodyworker and hasn't received a massage in months, which is never a good idea. I believe that to give touch, we must also feel touch - it's my motto. One way to achieve this is through a reciprocal touch exchange. We took turns working on each other for 15 minutes until our bodies completely relaxed. The experience was truly amazing; he was ready to work hard when he arrived.

Two-way touch is also a great way to learn bodywork, My TOUCH TUTORIALS are both relaxing and fun, come try one and see.

the full intensity of orgasm

Jun 07, 13:03

Edging is a delightful self-touch practice that enhances your connection with your body. It can be a brief session or extended over multiple sessions. I have honed this skill over the years, enabling me to achieve dry releases, experiencing the full intensity of orgasm without releasing any fluid energy. This process demands time, patience, and consistent practice, with the practice itself being the most rewarding aspect.
Achieving profound edging requires significant self-control, opening the door to a level of bliss previously unexplored. Just yesterday, I enjoyed over 2 hours of edging, reaching a state of ecstasy and still retaining my energy fully. I avoid experiencing discomfort or tension in my groin because I have learned to channel the energy from my genitals to the entire body.
Today, I feel a pleasant warmth, energized and invigorated, eagerly anticipating more edging sessions. Should you wish to explore edging with me, you are welcome to visit my OnlyFans page and embark on this journey with me at Onlyfans.com/intouchmen.

erogenous zones

Jun 06, 12:22

I often get asked if I offer happy endings. While it may feel amazing to focus on that part, what about all the other body parts to be touched and understood? Did you know you can stimulate the erogenous zones by massaging someone's ankle? I am very comfortable dealing with the male body and prefer sessions to progress naturally. I have interacted with thousands of individuals and I am attuned to energy, understanding what requires support and release. Therefore, why not put your trust in a professional? Additionally, edge coaching can be an educational enhancement if there is a genuine connection and an eagerness to actually focus and learn about your zones. However, it is important not to approach the session with specific expectations; I believe no expectations yield the best outcomes.

Men's wellness at NJHANDS

Jun 02, 10:07

My massage therapy practice is about men's wellness, focusing on relaxation and recovery. I specialize in massage techniques that promote relaxation, aid in injury recovery, help relieve chronic pain and discomfort and boost your entire physical and metabolic system. These techniques include Swedish, Sports, Deep Tissue, Clinical, Cupping / Gua Sha, Kundalini Tantric, and Sound Therapy. I am serious about helping men achieve their wellness goals. Come and relax on my table, and feel the stress melt away.

I am now offering 30 Min CLINICAL SPECIFIC TREATMENTS $60
Upper Back/Shoulders/Kneck
IT band syndrome
Rotator Cuff Injury
Low Back Pain
Plantar Fascitis
Chronic Tention
Body Reconnection
ED and more

Hot Oil Swedish

Apr 24, 11:43

I begin with a traditional hot oil Swedish massage at the outset of a new client relationship. This is a foundational step in establishing a connection, both physically and energetically, with the individual. Through the initial session, I observe and assess the client's physical state and responses to touch and attune myself to the subtle energetic signals that guide the flow of the session.

Every touch we give has the potential to influence the recipient on a physical, emotional, and energetic level. As a therapist, I pay close attention to how my touch impacts the client, where energy blocks or imbalances may manifest, and how the session unfolds in response to the interplay of touch and energy. This awareness allows me to tailor the massage experience to meet each individual's unique needs and responses, promoting a more profound sense of relaxation, healing, and release.

respect and understanding in touch

Apr 23, 11:54

Giving or receiving a massage involves a profound level of trust and vulnerability. It is a profoundly personal experience that can have therapeutic benefits for both the physical body and the mind. By engaging in open and honest communication about the type of touch desired, both individuals can clearly understand each other's preferences, boundaries, and comfort levels. This dialogue is the foundation for a positive and consensual interaction, allowing both parties to feel respected and safe throughout the exchange.

When embarking on a massage session, participants must openly discuss their expectations, desires, and any specific concerns they may have. By articulating their needs and preferences, individuals can guide the giver in providing touch that is pleasurable, effective, and within their comfort zone. This proactive communication enhances the overall quality of the massage experience and fosters a sense of mutual respect and understanding between the participants.

How excited it was making me.

Mar 23, 11:08

Stimulating energy between two individuals can be a profound experience during a massage. Energy transfer occurs as the giver applies pressure and manipulates the receiver's muscles. This exchange involves physical touch and an emotional and energetic connection between the two individuals. The giver's intention, focus, and skillful touch can create a sense of relaxation, trust, stimulation, and well-being in the receiver. At the same time, the receiver's receptivity and response to the message can influence the giver's energy and effectiveness. Overall, the mutual give and take of energy during a massage can lead to a harmonious interaction that benefits both parties in a unique and healing way. The other day, my buddy made my body sing as he explored my body while I was giving him a massage. Im sure He could feel how excited it was making me. REMEMBER: massage is touch, and all touch must be consensual. If you wish to touch your giver, ASK THEM IF IT IS OK.

A foot massage

Mar 19, 11:13

A foot massage can be sensual for men for various reasons. Firstly, the feet contain numerous nerve endings and pressure points that, when stimulated through massage, can create pleasurable sensations throughout the body. Foot massage can help release tension and stress from the body, promoting relaxation and potentially arousing feelings of pleasure in other areas. As men, we often carry stress and tension in our feet due to physical activity or long hours of standing; a foot massage can be a deeply soothing and sensual experience that allows you to unwind and feel pampered, so ask your massage guy to focus some time there, it's worth it. Did you know particular points around the foot are directly linked to your D-CK?

The glide of a hand

Mar 14, 10:48

Hot oil treatments offer several benefits for men's skin. Hot oils can help hydrate and nourish the skin when applied correctly, improving moisture retention and a more supple complexion. The heat from the oil can also help to open up the pores, allowing for deeper penetration of nutrients and promoting better absorption of the oil's beneficial properties. Additionally, hot oil treatments can soften rough skin, soothe irritation, and reduce inflammation. This can be particularly beneficial for men with dry, flaky, or sensitive skin. The massaging action involved in applying hot oil can also enhance blood circulation, contributing to a healthier and more vibrant skin appearance.
Incorporating hot oil treatments into a skincare routine can help men maintain smoother, healthier-looking skin by promoting hydration, nourishment, and overall wellness.

Hot oils are a fun way to discover how good the glide of a hand feels on all our parts.

improving overall mood

Mar 12, 10:35

Men should be getting massages regularly for many reasons, as they offer numerous physical and mental health benefits that can enhance overall well-being. Regular massage therapy can help relieve stress and tension, promote relaxation, improve circulation, reduce muscle soreness and stiffness, enhance flexibility, and boost immune function. It can also aid in improving erections, reducing the risk of injuries, and promoting faster recovery from physical activities or workouts.
Additionally, massages can have a positive impact on mental health by promoting a sense of calm and relaxation, reducing anxiety and depression, and improving overall mood. The therapeutic touch of massage therapy can also provide a valuable opportunity for men to unwind, de-stress, and rejuvenate their body and mind in today's fast-paced and demanding world.


Mar 11, 11:40

Massage has been known to provide numerous benefits beyond the relaxation it offers. For men looking to enhance their sex life, regular massage can prove to be a valuable ally. Not only does massage help to alleviate muscle tension and stress, but it also promotes relaxation, increases circulation, and boosts overall well-being. These physical effects can translate directly into improvements in sexual performance and satisfaction.
Massage therapy can help men connect with their bodies on a deeper level, heightening awareness of sensations and increasing sensitivity. This increased body awareness can enhance intimacy and pleasure during sexual activities. Furthermore, regular massage can contribute to reducing anxiety and improving emotional well-being, which are crucial factors in sustaining a healthy and satisfying sex life. Massage can get one back in touch with so many things, its worth getting on the table.

Giving a massage can be deeply soothing

Mar 10, 10:53

Providing a massage can offer a sense of relaxation and tranquility similar to that experienced when receiving one. Giving a massage involves focused attention on the recipient’s body, allowing the giver to connect with the sensations and responses of the person receiving the massage. This focus on another person's well-being can create a calming and meditative state for the giver, leading to a reduction in their stress levels and an enhanced sense of mindfulness. Additionally, the physical movements involved in giving a massage can promote relaxation in the giver's muscles, similar to the benefits enjoyed by the recipient. Overall, giving a massage can be a deeply soothing experience that fosters a sense of well-being and connection for both the giver and the receiver.

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Supporting sexual function

Mar 06, 14:30

Massage therapy can for sure enhance men's sexual health. From promoting relaxation and reducing stress to improving circulation, balancing hormones, and fostering emotional well-being, the benefits of massage extend beyond mere physical touch. By recognizing the interconnectedness of mind, body, and spirit, men can harness the power of massage therapy to support their sexual function and overall health. Get more relaxed and get that wood working.

Release endorphins

Mar 04, 12:43

One of the primary reasons why men should consider getting massages is for stress relief. Massages can help relax the mind and body, reducing stress and promoting overall well-being. Men who lead active lifestyles or engage in intense physical activities can significantly benefit from massages. Regular massages can help quicker recovery from muscle soreness, injuries, or strenuous workouts by improving blood circulation and enhancing muscle flexibility. Massage therapy can also enhance athletic performance by reducing muscle tension, increasing range of motion, and promoting faster recovery post-exercise. This can be particularly beneficial for men involved in sports or fitness training. Men experiencing chronic pain conditions, such as back pain, neck pain, or headaches, can find relief through massage therapy. Certain massage techniques help alleviate muscle tension, target specific trigger points, and release endorphins, which act as natural painkillers. Apart from the physical benefits, massages can also have positive effects on mental and sexual health. Men may experience reduced anxiety, improved sleep quality, and harder erections!

Self-care practices

Feb 29, 11:10

Self-care practices for men have gained traction as more individuals recognize the importance of holistic well-being. The hot oil massage is a simple yet effective way to promote physical and mental health among the various self-care rituals.

Muscle Relaxation: The warmth of the oil aids in relaxing tense muscles, reducing stiffness and promoting flexibility. Joint Health: Massaging oil into joints can alleviate stiffness and improve mobility. Skin Health, hydration: Hot oil massage helps moisturize the skin, leaving it soft and supple. Detoxification: Massaging with oils can help draw out toxins from the skin, promoting a healthier complexion.Anti-aging benefits: Regular hot oil massages can boost collagen production, reducing the appearance of fine lines and wrinkles.

Incorporating a weekly hot oil massage into a self-care routine can benefit many. As men prioritize holistic health with hot oil massage, one can enjoy a simple yet powerful way to nurture the body and mind. The best part is this can all be done naked. Who does love that?


Feb 27, 13:47

I am thrilled to be back in New Jersey practicing massage after a beautiful trip to New Orleans. I am eager to have all the men in New Jersey on my massage table, enveloped in warm healing oils, before the arrival of spring. I am currently offering Swedish relaxation sessions. Come experience pure bliss with me."

Total Bliss

Oct 06, 2023

I found total bliss at my men's nude hot oil massage trade group last night. Letting it all go was just what I needed. The men were a beautiful mix of body types, body parts, and energy. What I loved most of all was the direction the workshop took. It's open to full-body touch yet not open to becoming a JO party. Guys focus on making relaxation and energy movement the goal, not getting each other off.

Now, some may think, what's the point? The point is very Tantric. Stimulating energy and moving that energy around the body for healing and relaxation hits an essential Tantric practice. We allow energy to be. You have lost the flow when you latch on to EROS and pull that energy to completion; instead, when you let the energy that builds to be, AMAZING THINGS HAPPEN. Want to see? Reach out if you are in NJ.


nude yoga

Oct 01, 2023

I am up early today and excited about the men's nude yoga class I am hosting at my wellness studio. If you have never tried naked yoga, you should. It is a beautiful way to connect with your body. I highly recommend being naked around groups of like-minded men. So many of us never do that, never enjoy our bodies in their natural state. We all come in different shapes and sizes, and when you break through that wall of self-consciousness that keeps so many of us from just being, you gain so much insight. We all have body issues, and the mantra -AM I THIS, I WISH THIS, I WANT A BIGGER THAT, A SLIMMER THIS, HES BIGGEr, HES BETTER BLA BLA BLA- runs in so many minds. Why not change that and start something new? See what happens then.


Sep 30, 2023

I had such a great time yesterday at the massage studio. I worked with three FANTASTIC MEN. I was buzzing with energy after the third one ended. I could feel the power and amazing vibes we had all worked up together in my body. Giving bodywork is as amazing as getting it. This realization happens all the time in my men's workshops. Guys find that they often like giving even more. My sessions are all about the man on my table, his body, and his relaxation. Yes, my body is involved, sometimes more than others... But my needs are not what's important. That is key to doing great bodywork; even though it feels amazing, you must, as a giver, be able to pull back and not cross the line into your desires over your partners. This bit of awareness massage teaches us is priceless in so many life situations. See where else you may be able to apply what you learn.

last night at my Men's Massage Group

Sep 29, 2023

We had our return to HOL OIL MASSAGE trade last night at my Men's Massage Group, and it was so relaxing. On our second round of trades, I decided to switch it up once everyone was warmed up and ready. Instead of our typical 20-minute massage trades with one partner, I had the guys try something different. We did 5 min sessions where we all had to attempt to massage in a new way. After 5 min, the guys giving would switch to a new body and give again. These quick, unique, get-out-of-your-old-patterns tricks always produce fantastic results. OMG WAS IT GOOD! One INTOUCHMAN slowed his touch down, stayed connected, and drove my body crazy. I was hard as a rock, even though that was not his focus. Another guy gave me a complete systematic massage session in only 5 minutes that could be marketed as a 5 min tune-up. The last man to touch me used super light fingertip full-body strokes that made my body tingle again. I slept like a baby; six guys slept like babies last night! Massage is vast when you explore, stay playful, and enjoy what your hands can do.

For me, massage is an art.

Sep 28, 2023

I had a guy reach out to me this week about booking a "MASSAGE". I could tell from his cryptic outreach that he was most likely not interested in a massage at all.

What he was seeking was a naked touch session.

For me, massage is an Art form that opens us up in many fantastic ways and allows men space to get out of their heads and into their bodies. If one enters a massage room with a mind full of pre-conceived fantasies, one sets oneself up for disappointment.

As I state in my advertising, what I do is MASSAGE. First-time sessions are an introduction to this ART that deepens and expands only after two people get to know each other and only on the naturally present energy.

Another man reached out as well and asked if we could take our next session in a new direction, more sensual. My answer was an honest NO. Why? Because I, as the giver, did not feel the same as the receiver. Both sides of all MASSAGE EQUATIONS are essential. So remember to talk with each other, and when you are both on the same page, explore where things can go.

Expanding your self-touch practice

Sep 27, 2023

When you are working on expanding your self-touch practice, it is essential to remember that each time you place your hand on your meat is an opportunity to discover more and more about your subtle energy. Your subtle energy is focused there, and the act of self-touch either expands and builds your connection to it or misses it altogether.
If one just mindlessly grabs at themself without slowing down and focusing on how we truly feel, one misses SO MUCH!

Appropriately trained massage and bodyworkers can identify and work with the body's subtle energy everywhere he touches. So, your foot, calf, hand, or lower back becomes a sensual space for subtle energy to manifest. Sensual bodywork is not about grabbing at your meat. Sensual bodywork is about opening your entire body to this flow of subtle energy. So next time you get on the massage table, focus more on every part of you and see what happens.

a higher consciousness around our TOUCH

Sep 25, 2023

WOW, we had an incredible men's NUDE YOGA class yesterday at my wellness studio and followed it with an EDGE MEDITATION; it was powerful and literally a BLAST well, multiple BIG BEAUTIFUL BLASTS, to be specific... I love to share in EDGING with men and get the energy of CONSCIOUS ****TOUCH into the world. I see so many men disrespect the ENERGY that their ****s and the ****s of other men. We each have a choice to EVOLVE into a higher consciousness around our BODIES or DEVOLVE into a mindless fetish. That is up to you. I CHOOSE EVOLVE! How about you? I just added a clip of our meditation to my onlyfans.com/INTOUCHMEN page.

Rainy Day Massage HOT OILS

Sep 23, 2023

What a day for a HOT OIL massage. YES, HOT OILS are back, and this is the time for them. This Ayurvedic style of massage is profoundly relaxing to your physical body and your nervous system. YOU HAVE TO FEEL IT TO KNOW. Think long, gliding, oily hands on your body, warming you from your head to your toes as you lie naked on a heated massage table. Sounds like bliss to me.

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